After being frustrated for about 2 hours I finally figured out the problem. The instructions from CCP do NOT work if you skip this one step. It may be because the step in normally done via a patch, but the patches do nothing if TQ and Sisi are running the same build as they are now, so the missing manual step is critical.CCP instructions for Mac Singularity
in the steps it SKIPS the part about adding the CiderGameOptions to the plist file. I only found it in the linked PIC at the far right hand side.