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Micheal Dietrich
Caldari
Caldari Provisions |
Posted - 2008.01.09 23:51:00 - [ 181]
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Genevive Gallente
Black Dog Ltd |
Posted - 2008.01.09 23:58:00 - [ 182]
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Rialtor
Amarr
Yarrrateers
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Posted - 2008.01.10 00:00:00 - [ 183]
 Originally by: Genevive Gallente
I have the photos on my myspace. There are several albums. Check out the 4th of July, and flowers albums for some nice pics. =)
http://www.myspace.com/sfsweet
No need to comment on my pic. I'm 41. I already know I'm old. 
Very nice, have you posted them anywhere before? I swear I've seen that purple flower one before, but maybe it's just me. And what kind of camera do you use? |
Genevive Gallente
Black Dog Ltd |
Posted - 2008.01.10 00:01:00 - [ 184]
Edited by: Genevive Gallente on 10/01/2008 00:02:00 Originally by: Rialtor
Very nice, have you posted them anywhere before? I swear I've seen that purple flower one before, but maybe it's just me. And what kind of camera do you use?
Yes they are also on Facebook and artistrising.com. Not all of them. Just a few of my best. I have 2 different cameras. One is just a pocket Olympus D-595 as I hate being without a camera. The other is a Canon Rebel XT DSLR. |
Draconius Krynar
Gallente
Nightsky Industries |
Posted - 2008.01.11 08:25:00 - [ 185]
Originally by: Kerpow
To the guy who lost his GF to a dude in WoW, do you miss her or are you glad that she is history?
Has she tried to make contact with you, or have you tried to contact her?
IMHO, I reckon you're better off without her. Also, I would suggest you put some real life socialising time and effort to mix with people. Playing computer games for most of your spare time might not be the best thing.
There are over 3 billion women in the world, go and meet some of them! ;-)
Hi ya, felt compelled to answer this one.. Yes I miss her, I miss her mostly at night when there's no one around and we used to chat. It's like i've lost my best friend, but worse because that person stabbed me in the back and it all happened so fast (to me anyway). Yes, I have attempted to speak to her since. She's put up this barrier where she deflects, denies or outright lies to avoid saying her true feelings. I guess that's how she wants to deal with this. Makes it easier for her to think that I'm the big bad and she's absolved of any blame.. it'll really start to bite into her when looser-WOW dumps her. (Incidentally, she doesn't think it will last long either) To make it even worse, she's also is a self harmer. I noticed fresh cuts on her arms and asked her why, she blamed me for them. It's then that I realised that I could be the world's most dedicated, attentive, loving, caring and patient lover and it wouldn't matter, I'd still get the blame if anything went wrong. Having thought about this carefully, I executed my next trick up my sleeve. I went around there to see if she cared about what she's done. She claimed she didn't, thinking that she has all the power in this. I didn't believe her. So I removed everything of value that I had there. When I tried to take her PC which I paid for, have receipts for and can prove everything is mine, she stood in the way and her mother called the police on me. I left her house as requested without the PC, but got a police officer escorted me later to enter again and collect more items. I'm in the process of getting a court order to get that PC and her mobile phone back. Then she will be left with nothing to show from this relationship, which is about what she admitted to me that she put in for the last 3 years. Now some of you might say that's vindictive, spiteful, that I was better off walking away and forgetting about her. But I know her. I want her to hate me because it makes it easier for me. There's no chance that when WOW-Loser dumps her in a couple of weeks that she'll come crawling back and beg for forgiveness. When it comes to her, I'm weak. I need to be strong. Thanks for the messages of support. I have read all of them and appreciated others valuable insights into this. |
Fink Angel
Caldari
The Merry Men |
Posted - 2008.01.11 08:39:00 - [ 186]
Walk away, don't look back, don't stay in contact. (From Eve too if you want my opinion on that!)
Your feelings for her (and Eve) will decline over time. Whoever said "time is a great healer" wasn't wrong. |
Tivookz
Caldari
Long Dong Corp
Intergalactic Exports Group |
Posted - 2008.01.11 09:20:00 - [ 187]
Lol if you got dumped by her because she choose some unemployed dude who plays wow I just gotta say that she must be one ugly stupid fat hoe tbh and while it can be hard now being alone being afraid to be left alone I'd say it's better that way than being with a girl that belongs to the lowest part of the gene ladder. |
Tivookz
Caldari
Long Dong Corp
Intergalactic Exports Group |
Posted - 2008.01.11 09:22:00 - [ 188]
Oh and by the way, Pictures or it never happened. |
Fink Angel
Caldari
The Merry Men |
Posted - 2008.01.11 09:33:00 - [ 189]
Edited by: Fink Angel on 11/01/2008 09:44:16Edited by: Fink Angel on 11/01/2008 09:43:09Before you even consider going back to your girlfriend when when she dumps / is dumped by WoW loser (because frankly it sounds to me that you will go back to her given the chance), read ladder theory (go straight to Foundations page first). Trust me. Edi: Thank you poster below. Link changed to a "Tiny URL". The contents aren't offensive, even though the forums don't like the name! |
Tivookz
Caldari
Long Dong Corp
Intergalactic Exports Group |
Posted - 2008.01.11 09:36:00 - [ 190]
Originally by: Fink Angel
Before you even consider going back to your girlfriend when when she dumps / is dumped by WoW loser (because frankly it sounds to me that you will go back to her given the chance), read ladder theory (go straight to Foundations page first). Trust me.
Link doesnt work but http://www.intellectual*****s.com/masterladder.html replace the ****'s with the english street word for prostitute. |
Max Nero
Endless Fury
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Posted - 2008.01.11 10:50:00 - [ 191]
Originally by: Fink Angel
Edited by: Fink Angel on 11/01/2008 09:44:16
Edited by: Fink Angel on 11/01/2008 09:43:09
Before you even consider going back to your girlfriend when when she dumps / is dumped by WoW loser (because frankly it sounds to me that you will go back to her given the chance), read ladder theory (go straight to Foundations page first). Trust me.
Edi: Thank you poster below. Link changed to a "Tiny URL". The contents aren't offensive, even though the forums don't like the name!
DUDE, THAT IS GOLD! |
Gner Dechast
Flashman Services
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Posted - 2008.01.11 10:56:00 - [ 192]
Originally by: Draconius Krynar
Edited by: Draconius Krynar on 09/01/2008 09:27:22
I don't particularly care about the flames on this one.
Yesterday, my girlfriend of 4 years decided to dump me because of (amongst other tiny insignificant things), my obsession with this game. She seems to think that playing this game while i'm at my house (and not hers) is detrimental to our relationship. Regardless of the fact that I also work full time for very little money so the world of Eve is a welcome release..
I feel I must point out at this point that she's a WOW obssessed freak and she has no qualms about playing her game when we're supposed to be spending 'quality' time together.
So yeah, she dumped me. Everything was fine a week ago. We were looking at flats together. She asked me to move back in with her (and her parents) again. Then she met this guy in WOW, hit it off with him, invited him to stay with her and the rest is history... all within the space of 5 days
My condolances... However inappropriate it may be for me to say this... in general, you are better off her leaving. I know from a personal experience, that it sure the hell doesn't feel like it after it happens (thank's a million, mother nature and retarted brain chemistry!), but if she finds herself (as the more sensitive gender to feelings) capable of doing that just like that, imagine she doing that much later, say when you have common house or even kids. (odds are you think I'm an ass and aren't reading at this point anymore) I can attest to the fact, as well as ALL my friends, that it's an universal female trait to consider all your personal time something that's "away from common quality time" but all her activities are her personal time and heaven forbid you ever questioning that. It's not even funny how large of a percentage act like that  I chose myself not to accept that after the 5th "me or the game" ultimatum was given to me, and I told my ex to pack up and go. I haven't regretted a second. There are alternative solutions, ofcourse. Some of my still coupled friends have opted to sneer their girl into online gaming as well, but in experience, it will have to be the same game, I warn you... (two instances of them finding something more exciting from another game, where they supposedly can fool around "unseen", have happened. Both of them tried to get back thou, first after just 4 months and the second after little over a year) Then there's giving in, and cutting back dramatically the playing (or usually quitting completely). Some guys adapt and seem to live on, while few have become bitter and resentful over the unjust conditions they feel have placed on them. Most recent "event" on this matter was from this Christmas. A friend of mine, Mike, was told by his wife, that she'd get a divorce unless he would stop playing. So Mike shut his game early December and when we saw him again he told that while his wife was first happy (victorious), she was less than satisfied when Mike ended up spending his Christmas mostly in various states of drunkenness. I can relate to Mike, there is absolutely nothing to do over Christmas, althou alcoholics might not be my first alternative... I don't know who or what to blame in today's society... But for some reason, women in general are utterly incapable of understanding that men are not commodities or pets. We equally have and need some of our own time, and just like we don't nag and whine about their comings and goings or hobbies, why do they feel they have the right to do so? Why is my 2 hours at the PC a "threat" to the relationship, and how on earth would it be better if I am forced to sit idle with her beside the TV that is putting forth filth that is also known as soap operas. She maybe marginally more happy, getting her way, but I will be annoyed, frustrated and grumpy, giving her no positive attention in the process... Anyway, I wish you speedy recovery from your adversities. |
Lais Eron |
Posted - 2008.01.11 11:08:00 - [ 193]
Originally by: Vincenzo Delloro
P.S. As for the GF, what will happen when her e-lover realises she's a fatty? (There's only so much Myspace angles can hide in real life.)
He's love her even more for her curvy figure? :P You speak like it's a bad thing. Some guys like fat girls. According to some study I read about recently girls that are fat on their hips have smarter kids. No wonder males are naturally attracted to them. Originally by: Kerpow
Originally by: Rialtor
It's probably still enough to do the deed well into your 50-60s. unless you were low to begin with, and it's not dangerous for the man.
It's not that, it's that the DNA in the sperm is not as good as it was. So you're kid's DNA is not as good as it could be. There is an increased risk of congenital defects, for example.
Not so. A girl is born will all the eggs she's ever have. As years go on chance of damages to DNA of those eggs increases. A guy's sperm is being produced every day so his DNA is freshly made, but load decreases and some guys become impotent, start getting other problems like with prostate, etc. which is why while a guy can make kids in his 50s and 60s in theory in practice few do so. |
Najenna
Minmatar
Minmatar and Gallente Association
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Posted - 2008.01.11 11:11:00 - [ 194]
I feel for you mate. The same thing happen to me 3 years ago and like someone already said you are better off without her and also you can play Eve as much as you like now. The good news is if you can find a Real women in Eve your set. I didnt find my girlfriend she found me and guess what? She is a Eve junkie like me and she went to fanfest got me a key chain shot glass and a Minmatar T-Shirt. Also she made my forum Sig too. Now we have been dating for 3.5 months and not 1 argument and life is pretty good. Moral to the story if your Ex can find a wow scumbag you can find yourself a Eve princess  . I am living proof, There are women in Eve that are looking for men In Eve so they can make Eve Babies  |
KaosTheory |
Posted - 2008.01.11 11:11:00 - [ 195]
Originally by: Draconius Krynar
Edited by: Draconius Krynar on 09/01/2008 09:27:22
I don't particularly care about the flames on this one.
Yesterday, my girlfriend of 4 years decided to dump me because of (amongst other tiny insignificant things), my obsession with this game. She seems to think that playing this game while i'm at my house (and not hers) is detrimental to our relationship. Regardless of the fact that I also work full time for very little money so the world of Eve is a welcome release..
I feel I must point out at this point that she's a WOW obssessed freak and she has no qualms about playing her game when we're supposed to be spending 'quality' time together.
So yeah, she dumped me. Everything was fine a week ago. We were looking at flats together. She asked me to move back in with her (and her parents) again. Then she met this guy in WOW, hit it off with him, invited him to stay with her and the rest is history... all within the space of 5 days
I didn't get much sleep the night before. She broke up with me tonight and I couldn't get images of her out of my mind, so I logged on to Eve. Despite some peoples demands that I head to bed for some kip (Yes Genie :P), I started smacking off some level 4's. Everything was fine until about 6am this morning when the combination of missing sleep, emotional damage and warm central heating conspired against me to make me fall asleep whilst sat upright right in the middle of full room aggro in a level 4...
Victim: Draconius Krynar
Alliance: NONE
Corp: Center for Advanced Studies
Destroyed: Raven Navy Issue
System: Vylade
Security: 0.8
Damage Taken: 225107
Destroyed items:
Cruise Missile Launcher II, Qty: 2
Wrath Cruise Missile, Qty: 3753 (Cargo)
Pith X-Type X-Large Shield Booster
Dragon F.O.F. Cruise Missile I, Qty: 162
Caldari Navy Heat Dissipation Field
Dread Guristas Ballistic Deflection Field, Qty: 2
Hobgoblin II, Qty: 3 (Drone Bay)
Capacitor Control Circuit I, Qty: 3
Dread Guristas Shield Boost Amplifier
Dragon F.O.F. Cruise Missile I, Qty: 3768 (Cargo)
Corpus A-Type Heavy Nosferatu
Dread Guristas Heat Dissipation Field
Lovely, so not only have I lost a girlfriend, but i've also lost my 2billion faction pimped ubertankmobile of death.
Now all I need is some rogue comet to fall out the sky on my head and the day will be complete..
Fly safe now...
I met my g/f in a different MMO altogether (not wow, too many fat smelly pigs play that game) After 2 years of being close personal friends she invited me to meet her, we hit it off April 04 and been together since. We have our qualms but its a generally great relationship. As a gamer she understands that playing her game is just as much as an escape as me playing EVE. She thinks EVE is a BEAUTIFUL game but "it looks WAY too complex to understand" I said thats fine I'm not bothered. The catch here is, When I'm doing something and say "I really have to pay attention right now, this mission is really difficult" and she'll wait til I'm done blowing stuff up then ask for my attention. She never brings up that I play and I never bother her when shes engrossed in doing some high level content in her game. Its a mutualistic gaming household. I keep the house clean, provide supplemental income, she cooks and does laundry and works ass off bartending for a very hard to please china-man. There have been times where I've had arguements that makes me want to leave but I think to myself, Then who would be there to play games with me, or even cook and do my laundry... Theres alot of other things that dont fall into place that I don't see myself doing but again. I love the time we spend together as I make it a point to log as little time as possible in EVE on her days off to spend time watching movies together and that jazz. I'm incredibly sorry for what you've lost but hey, can always meet a EU chick that lives in amsterdayum =P |
Don ZOLA
Caldari
Sniggerdly
Pandemic Legion |
Posted - 2008.01.11 11:14:00 - [ 196]
Edited by: Don ZOLA on 11/01/2008 11:17:52
im sorry for your ship loss. ***** aint worth your nerves. You are lucky that this happened before you moved in, lived together, had children etc. |
Lais Eron |
Posted - 2008.01.11 11:24:00 - [ 197]
Originally by: Draconius Krynar
Now some of you might say that's vindictive, spiteful, that I was better off walking away and forgetting about her. But I know her. I want her to hate me because it makes it easier for me. There's no chance that when WOW-Loser dumps her in a couple of weeks that she'll come crawling back and beg for forgiveness. When it comes to her, I'm weak. I need to be strong.
hehe smart move, sounds like you are getting over this relationship she might have avoidant personality disorder coupled with depression - avoids rl contact with people (plays computer games, works part time, lives with parents) self-cutter which shows she's in a lot of emotional pain she cannot cope with and has masochistic tendencies (depression, anger, frustration), and in the end she just really dumped you very abruptly, sounds like everything was going on OK and then she suddenly cuts the relationship off which avoidants sometimes do as the need to reject and fear of acceptance accumulates over years of seemingly happy relationship anyhow it is hard to diagnose people over the net but it sounds like she might need some professional help of a shrink |
Jesum
Amarr
Warmongers
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Posted - 2008.01.11 11:28:00 - [ 198]
lulz |
Chribba
Otherworld Enterprises
Otherworld Empire |
Posted - 2008.01.11 11:35:00 - [ 199]
Relations > MMOs imo. One should always put his/her family first. But as said, she dumped you over some WoW gnome - you're better off without her, but seriously EVE > other games - we got the girls and the beer!! |
Gangus
Minmatar
Matari BackBone
Fate Weavers |
Posted - 2008.01.11 11:38:00 - [ 200]
Originally by: Najenna
I feel for you mate. The same thing happen to me 3 years ago and like someone already said you are better off without her and also you can play Eve as much as you like now. The good news is if you can find a Real women in Eve your set.
I didnt find my girlfriend she found me and guess what? She is a Eve junkie like me and she went to fanfest got me a key chain shot glass and a Minmatar T-Shirt. Also she made my forum Sig too. Now we have been dating for 3.5 months and not 1 argument and life is pretty good. Moral to the story if your Ex can find a wow scumbag you can find yourself a Eve princess. I am living proof, There are women in Eve that are looking for men In Eve so they can make Eve Babies
So when are you planning to meet in RL?? That's when the arguments start... BTW, any of those EVE Princesses from Australia, send me an EVEMail ;) Gangus Recruitment Officer and Booster Fiend Matari BackBone [MBB] |
Neamus |
Posted - 2008.01.11 11:55:00 - [ 201]
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Fuazzole |
Posted - 2008.01.11 12:13:00 - [ 202]
It sounds like you are rich, and this is your 1st big loss, after 4-5 of this calibre you will feel only as sad as the 1st time you lost your 5th shuttle, not very
WoW stealing GF's is not rare, though 99.9% of gamers are men, women it seems have less mental resiliance.
They might be nights-in-shining-armour on screen, but it's a game! wumun!
Every ones all kind and caring(and fake) to begin with, but after they settle and the real "them" comes out, it would be interesting to see if she comes back begging, the reward for standing your ground and telling her to F! is infinute.
Despite how you feel..prolly denial to the following -> you truelly are better off without her.
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