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 Nikolai Nuvolari Caldari Gilead's Bullet
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Posted - 2006.03.13 23:15:00 - [ 31]
Originally by: MrTripps Won't someone PLEASE think of the children!!!
On second thought, screw 'em. Children are our future. The present belongs to me.
Ok. No more Simpson's quotes for me. Today.
Are you related to Captain Tripps? |
 Nafri Caldari Deep Core Mining Inc.
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Posted - 2006.03.13 23:25:00 - [ 32]
1st.
Dont let your son play games which arent made for his age. You wouldnt let him watch terminator 3 or a soft ****o as well, would you? This game has conents of brothels, sexual abusage and lots of violance. Nothing for a 7 year old child. If your a concerned parent, start with yourself and dont complain to others.
2nd.
offensive names are petitionable and get deleted pretty fast. Your corp is named "naughty-corner-logistic", ähm, well, I guess you know what I mean. Check yourself, then judge about others.
3rd.
Your son wouldnt now its bad language if he hasnt heard it before, so you cant blame the user for that. And again, check parent control before you let a 7 year old child play a computer game. With 7 I didnt even think about computer games except for some rounds at the C64 anyway. |
 Peri Stalsis |
Posted - 2006.03.13 23:35:00 - [ 33]
Originally by: wierchas noobhunter
Quote: Be obscene, vulgar, sexually explicit, offensive, hurtful, harmful, promote drugs, profane, anti-gay, and ethnically, racially or sexually offensive or impart any real-world hostility toward a specific nationality, race or religion.
  
What about gratuitous medical references? |
 Raw Dogg The Collective Against ALL Authorities |
Posted - 2006.03.14 00:18:00 - [ 34]
My name is censored :(
-Crackfarmer |
 Usul Faust |
Posted - 2006.03.14 00:22:00 - [ 35]
Originally by: framolia Hello
As a father of 4, I play eve with the possibility of my young children seeing me play and looking at things in-game.
I have recently seen a few really obcene usernames in the area surrounding Suroken and my 7 year old son who is really good at reading picked up some foul language fron a user name.
Are there actually people out there looking for this sort of thing as i believe some names are beyond a joke.
I know my son is too young really for Eve, but I really appreciate someone actually preventing such names being used.
Please don't flame me, I am just a concerned parent.
Thanks
if your kid ever hangs around with other children, chances are he already knew whichever word it was, and was testing you to see how rude it was. |
 Dao 2 Thenta-Makur
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Posted - 2006.03.14 00:59:00 - [ 36]
aint gonna say anything bout eves policy cause ill stay out of it but imma say if u dont no ur "bad words" by the time ur out of elementary school i think u should start learnin quick like ;) |
 Verone Gallente Veto Corp |
Posted - 2006.03.14 01:06:00 - [ 37]
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 Wendat Huron Stellar Solutions |
Posted - 2006.03.14 01:41:00 - [ 38]
Would it be PC to find Gen Mladic offensive much like Adolf H or is that not proper considering he hasn't actually been convicted yet?
Either way could someone be assed to report him for me? |
 Nafri Caldari Deep Core Mining Inc.
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Posted - 2006.03.14 11:11:00 - [ 39]
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 James Lyrus Lyrus Associates The Star Fraction |
Posted - 2006.03.14 11:29:00 - [ 40]
*shrug* EVE has rules on acceptable content. If they're being broken, or you have reason to consider something 'objectionable' then object. F12 is your friend. To digress slightly: Personally I'm not a big fan of censorship - if a child doesn't know what the word means, no harm done. If they do know what it means ... well they already know. Chances are they've picked up far more offensive language from the playground that they're likely to do so in the middle of an MMO :). The distinction is that as a parent, the onus is on you to show them the difference - blindfolding them to 'wrong' helps none. Showing them right and wrong, and explaining why they're different is important. Of course, I've never had to explain what "WTF" stands for either :). That said, that's just my opinion, and so out of courtesy I do (tend to  ) moderate my language. More so in 'public' channels and forums (not limited to EVE). Less so in 'private' comms where I know the people participating (and their opinions). |
 Niiro Hanzo |
Posted - 2006.03.14 11:33:00 - [ 41]
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 Copine Callmeknau Kangaroos With Frickin Lazerbeams The KWFL Republic |
Posted - 2006.03.14 11:41:00 - [ 42]
The kid picks up the bad language from the playground, just like I did.
Besides, wth are you doing allowing your 7 year old son to watch a game rated at double his age? Would you let your kid watch 24 or CSI? |
 Nafri Caldari Deep Core Mining Inc.
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Posted - 2006.03.14 11:51:00 - [ 43]
Originally by: Copine Callmeknau The kid picks up the bad language from the playground, just like I did.
Besides, wth are you doing allowing your 7 year old son to watch a game rated at double his age? Would you let your kid watch 24 or CSI?
The blue lagoon is 12 year old rated too. I wonder if he let his child watch Broke Shields Boobs and pubic hair  . Good old memories anyway  |
 Izo Azlion Veto. Veto Corp |
Posted - 2006.03.14 11:55:00 - [ 44]
At the end of the day, most "naughty words" are just that. Naughty. Although someone naming themselves someting rediculous and offensive is stupid (And they should be executed at birth for doing so ) most the time their not too offensive, and should be taken with a pinch of salt. If your children want to watch you play, at the young age of 7, minimize local. Next time you get popped and podded, blame your son. ^.^ Alas, we cant execute all the morons with "1337 ****" as their name, and we just have to deal with it. Which is also the reason why I find EVE hard to roleplay) I bet by the time hes 12 hes swearing. Thats not your fault, its not mine, and i'll be damned if its EVE's fault. Its societies fault as a whole. Words are words, put into the right context, any word can be made offensive or sarcastic, at least to an extent. Relax, pop the nubbinses that have the ******ed names, and petition them too. Just because they dont see it, doesnt mean they wont find out at some time. (Admittedly 7 is too young to know those kind of words, but 5 more years and I wouldnt be surprised.)I just dont think society should be "bubble wrapping," as it was put before. If you lived a youth in a bubble, and then moved to a city and got mugged, it'd be a huge shock. Ease them in gently, and teach them the world, dont leave the world to teach them. Izo Azlion, Clan Wolf. |
 Sharcy Sonnema
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Posted - 2006.03.14 12:15:00 - [ 45]
Originally by: Mechina Yes, I know it's a rant. It's a valid one. :P
Agreed. There was no shortage of sex, foul language and violence on TV or other media when I grew up in the 70's and 80's, and I still grew up okay (well, sorta...  ). Society has gotten way, way too hypernervous about this sort of stuff. If anything, like with trying to "protect" children from any form of viruses and bacteria, it seriously hinders the buildup of their immune system... In this case, the mental one. |
 Luigi Thirty Caldari The Minmatarded
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Posted - 2006.03.14 12:23:00 - [ 46]
Originally by: MrTripps Won't someone PLEASE think of the children!!!
On second thought, screw 'em. Children are our future. The present belongs to me.
Ok. No more Simpson's quotes for me. Today.
Here's one for you. "Don't say 'sex' in front of the C-H-I-L-D-R-E-N!" "Sex Cauldron? I thought that place closed down!" |
 spurious signal Caldari Brainiacs
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Posted - 2006.03.14 12:38:00 - [ 47]
I think most of you are missing something about the concept of parenting here.
It's not about "protecting" a 7 year old from rude words, it's about consistency of rule enforcement. If I have rules with my children about the words they can and can't use then I want my kids to know that I will enforce those rules and that their mother will enforce those rules with the exact same firmness and boundaries I do.
That's why kids use profanity infront of their parents - to test the boundaries.
Now, if my kids then see that the same rules are NOT enforced in a part of the world outside my house, even when those same rules are explicity stated then it makes it a difficult task to explain the nature of rule systems in general.
I would never expect *my* rules to be enforced by anyone else, that'd be ludicrous, besides, I'm pretty relaxed (no sexism, no racism, no homophobia, only use swear words if a situation warrents it). However I do expect rules set by other people to be enforced by those people. I'm not a prude or a control freak, but I will petition obscene, racist or homophobic names. |
 Usul Faust |
Posted - 2006.03.14 12:46:00 - [ 48]
i agree with you, but for different reasons.
the people with obscene, racist or homophobic names are normally prime candidates for post natal abortion, and kicking their stupid faces out of eve is a Good Thing for everybody. |
 Matthew Caldari BloodStar Technologies
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Posted - 2006.03.14 12:47:00 - [ 49]
Originally by: Izo Azlion I just dont think society should be "bubble wrapping," as it was put before. If you lived a youth in a bubble, and then moved to a city and got mugged, it'd be a huge shock. Ease them in gently, and teach them the world, dont leave the world to teach them.
Firstly, should Eve really be a mechanism for teaching that? It's a game, not an educational tool. Secondly, everyone's focusing on the OP's theme of "protect the children". What about the adults? Sure, it's not like we've never heard those words before, it's not going to psycologically scar us or anything like that. But it's still not pleasant, and not something I particularly like seeing in the game. The trouble is that there is a fine balance to be struck here. Although you may not like rudeness, it is unreasonable to expect you will never see any in game. At the same time, it is reasonable to expect others to be responsible enough to control their behaviour to maintain some standard of politeness and behaviour. Context has a lot to do with this, which is why it's so hard to set down hard and fast rules that everyone agrees on. The odd swear-word in chat, as a genuine reaction, I don't object to. On the other hand, if every other word someone types is a swear word, then that's them being deliberately irresponsible with their language. Similarly irresponsible is some of the "smacktalk" that deliberately sets out to offend through the langauge used. These situations are very different, and should be treated as such. Something offensive in a character name should be looked at as different from the word slipped out in chat. A character's name is the very identity of the player in the game world. It is on constant display, and the players know this. Putting a swear word in your character name is equivalent to shouting that swear word into every channel you enter, and convoing it to every player who sees you. This means that people should be expected to exersise a significant degree of responsibility when naming their chars - more than might be expected in a general chat, for example. Censorship is often viewed as being always something bad, impinging upon free speech. The trouble is that while everyone is keen on exersising their right of free speech, they often ignore the responsibility that comes with it - the responsibility to consider the effect your words have on others. Yes, censorship can go too far and become something nasty. But where it simply acts to enforce the responsibilities we all should be bearing anyway, then it is a necessity. Exersising rights without taking on the responsibilities devalues those rights, and will inevitably end up impinging upon the rights of others. |
 Usul Faust |
Posted - 2006.03.14 12:51:00 - [ 50]
i've petitioned your name, 'matthew'. |
 Yuzier OA Minmatar Purple Reign Entertainment |
Posted - 2006.03.14 13:06:00 - [ 51]
Edited by: Yuzier OA on 14/03/2006 13:08:54 Originally by: framolia I think i just found something saying you got to be 13
But honestly i still find the use of obcene language as a charecter name as disturbing even at my age
Its a game, nobuddy forces you to log in. That being said, yes sometimes language can be harsh, but its only words and you will not die by them  This only reflects the real world, some swear alot others dont.....aslong you dont throw racist/political slurs around I couldnt care less. If you really find something offensive, petition it. BTW Selfcensorship or censorship in general is the fastest way to hell for any civilization...But learning good manners starts at home  |
 Niiro Hanzo |
Posted - 2006.03.14 13:30:00 - [ 52]
Edited by: Niiro Hanzo on 14/03/2006 13:34:26 Originally by: spurious signal I think most of you are missing something about the concept of parenting here.
It's not about "protecting" a 7 year old from rude words, it's about consistency of rule enforcement. If I have rules with my children about the words they can and can't use then I want my kids to know that I will enforce those rules and that their mother will enforce those rules with the exact same firmness and boundaries I do.
That's why kids use profanity infront of their parents - to test the boundaries.
Now, if my kids then see that the same rules are NOT enforced in a part of the world outside my house, even when those same rules are explicity stated then it makes it a difficult task to explain the nature of rule systems in general.
I would never expect *my* rules to be enforced by anyone else, that'd be ludicrous, besides, I'm pretty relaxed (no sexism, no racism, no homophobia, only use swear words if a situation warrents it). However I do expect rules set by other people to be enforced by those people. I'm not a prude or a control freak, but I will petition obscene, racist or homophobic names.
You started so good and ended so badly. How the hell does it break the rules if someone ELSE names their character offensively? It's not your fault is it? Is it your kids fault if another kid, while playing near your child, shouts something foul? Is it? Thought not. That said, names that are against CCPs rules have it coming. Originally by: Yuzier OA ] BTW Selfcensorship or censorship in general is the fastest way to hell for any civilization...But learning good manners starts at.
Indeed! I couldn't have said it better myself. A rich bad-word-vocabulary doesn't mean one has to use it and it doesn't mean one can't be good mannered. I'm a living example  |
 spurious signal Caldari Brainiacs
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Posted - 2006.03.14 14:13:00 - [ 53]
Originally by: Niiro Hanzo You started so good and ended so badly. How the hell does it break the rules if someone ELSE names their character offensively? It's not your fault is it? Is it your kids fault if another kid, while playing near your child, shouts something foul? Is it? Thought not. That said, names that are against CCPs rules have it coming.
You misunderstood. My only issue is if CCP's rules aren't enforced. EVE has strict rules about character naming. These must be enforced. I want my children to learn about the nature of rules systems both at home and in society - if CCP don't enforce their naming system then that would be a problem for me. Luckily it seems they do enforce the system but that, obviously, they cannot monitor all names and some names get through the filters. I'm simply explaining why I, and possibly many others, do bother to report names that break the policy  As for the seperate censorship issue people decrying it need to think a little bit harder. All societies have censorship, whether it's self-imposed or enforced from outside. You cannot have a totally censorship-free system - there always have to be some boundaries and limitations. Would you want EVE, or any other game, to contain images of a highly graphic or violent nature that could be disturbing to some people? Would you want innapropriate images of children in sexual or violent situations? Would you want images of bestiality, coprophilia, necrophilia? I have no problem with someone making a game or a film containing such things but content needs to be clearly labelled & classified so that you know what to expect when accessing it. If EVE had no restrictions on names whatsoever then it would probably have to carry an 18 certificate which would thus limit it's accessibility and the size and type of it's market. |
 Torg Jupiter Minmatar |
Posted - 2006.03.14 17:24:00 - [ 54]
let me go one step further: whats the problem with foul language? kids will learn it anyways, because they like to be irritating. and whats the problem with violence on the screen? kids cant be kept away from all the bad in the world. and if we would ever succed in doing so, this would render them unable to live here.
dont mistake me, please: i'm not saying 7 year olds should be granted access to dutch zombie movies and russian hardcore ****. no way. but seeing an 'unappropriate' name in eve will do no whatsoever harm to your kid. he simply will not understand what he reads. and by the time he's old enough to understand, he'll also be old enough to cope with it. |
 Usul Faust |
Posted - 2006.03.14 20:47:00 - [ 55]
i agree with you torg, but its an opinion, and some people will just never see eye to eye with you on that.
Plus, every time i have this argument it ends with me spamming pictures of industrial genital bodymods or something. |
 Matthew Caldari BloodStar Technologies
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Posted - 2006.03.14 20:55:00 - [ 56]
Originally by: Torg Jupiter et me go one step further: whats the problem with foul language? kids will learn it anyways, because they like to be irritating. and whats the problem with violence on the screen? kids cant be kept away from all the bad in the world. and if we would ever succed in doing so, this would render them unable to live here.
Something doesn't have to be everywhere for people to understand it and learn about it. And it is not the job of a game like eve to teach people these things. Originally by: Torg Jupiter dont mistake me, please: i'm not saying 7 year olds should be granted access to dutch zombie movies and russian hardcore ****. no way. but seeing an 'unappropriate' name in eve will do no whatsoever harm to your kid. he simply will not understand what he reads. and by the time he's old enough to understand, he'll also be old enough to cope with it.
Why should people have to put up with it, just because they can "cope" with it? Just because someone can cope with something, doesn't mean they should have to accept it. |
 Usul Faust |
Posted - 2006.03.14 20:58:00 - [ 57]
Originally by: Matthew Something doesn't have to be everywhere for people to understand it and learn about it. And it is not the job of a game like eve to teach people these things.
its not 'teaching' people these things. People are teaching people these things. massivley multiplayer, remember? |
 Matthew Caldari BloodStar Technologies
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Posted - 2006.03.14 21:03:00 - [ 58]
Originally by: Usul Faust
Originally by: Matthew Something doesn't have to be everywhere for people to understand it and learn about it. And it is not the job of a game like eve to teach people these things.
its not 'teaching' people these things. People are teaching people these things.
massivley multiplayer, remember?
You argued that it shouldn't be excluded because people need to learn about these things. I'm saying that eve is not an appropriate vehicle for that learning - whether it is the game itself, or the people within it, doing the teaching. There is absolutely no need for the gratuitous use of bad langauge within the game. |
 Usul Faust |
Posted - 2006.03.14 21:06:00 - [ 59]
no, torg argued that.
i said i wouldn't argue that becasue it always ends up with me posting pictures of people's genitals. |
 Matthew Caldari BloodStar Technologies
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Posted - 2006.03.14 21:16:00 - [ 60]
Originally by: Usul Faust no, torg argued that.
arg, fair enough, should learn to pay less attention to work and more to posting! You did say you agreed with it though. Originally by: Usul Faust i said i wouldn't argue that becasue it always ends up with me posting pictures of people's genitals.
Yes, that would be a bad way for the discussion to turn. |
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